{"id":67,"date":"2023-09-03T15:24:32","date_gmt":"2023-09-03T12:24:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/?p=67"},"modified":"2023-09-03T18:38:55","modified_gmt":"2023-09-03T15:38:55","slug":"baya-cirkinlestik","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/baya-cirkinlestik.html","title":{"rendered":"-Baya- \u00c7irkinle\u015ftik"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Evet, &#8220;baya\u011f\u0131&#8221; \u00e7irkinle\u015ftik. Art\u0131k sende eski sen de\u011filsin, bende eski ben de\u011filim. Hepimiz duygusuz, hayatta kalmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan psikolojisi bozuk, d\u0131\u015far\u0131 g\u00fclen sahte insanlar olduk. Ama neyse ki her\u015fey yolunday<strong>m\u0131\u015f<\/strong> gibi, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir birey<strong>mi\u015f<\/strong> gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeye devam ediyoruz. Ger\u00e7ekleri ne zaman konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z acaba?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Takvimden kopan her yaprak hi\u00e7bir \u015fey i\u00e7in \u00fcz\u00fclmemem gerekti\u011fini \u00f6\u011fretti bana. Yani &#8220;gams\u0131z&#8221; biri olmay\u0131. Zaten normalde de hi\u00e7bir \u015feyi kafama takmazd\u0131m. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z pandemi ve b\u00fcy\u00fck depremler, hayata kar\u015f\u0131 olan bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirdi mi? Yani hayata dair olan planlar\u0131n\u0131z ve hedeflerinizde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckte olsa bir de\u011fi\u015fiklik oldu mu? \ud83d\ude42 Mesela ben vazge\u00e7tim baz\u0131 \u015feylerden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>San\u0131r\u0131m ger\u00e7ekten baz\u0131 \u015feyler anlam\u0131n\u0131 yitirdi. Evet, anlams\u0131zla\u015fmaya ba\u015flayan \u015feylerin say\u0131s\u0131 her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn, hatta her ge\u00e7en saniye artmaya devam ediyor. Art\u0131k eskisi gibi bloga, kitaplara zaman ay\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in \u00fczg\u00fcn\u00fcm. Hayat beni,&nbsp;(t\u0131pk\u0131 sizler gibi)&nbsp;yapmak istemedi\u011fim \u015feylere zorlamaya devam ediyor. B\u00f6ylece bende \u00e7areyi, kendimi motive etmekte buluyorum. Daha do\u011frusu; mutlu olmak i\u00e7in kendimi kand\u0131rmaya ve kendimi motive etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. Yani anlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015f\u0131m b\u00fcy\u00fck belada.&nbsp;<s>Ama hi\u00e7 sorun de\u011fil !<\/s>&nbsp;Peki siz bu sorunu nas\u0131l \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcyorsunuz ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&#8230;<\/p>\n<cite>pazar yaz\u0131s\u0131 #109<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Mesela ben \u00e7\u00f6zemiyorum. \u00c7\u00f6zmek i\u00e7in de u\u011fra\u015fm\u0131yorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc art\u0131k hi\u00e7bir \u015fey eskisi gibi de\u011fil. Hepimiz baya\u011f\u0131 \u00e7irkinle\u015ftik.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-4-3 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Haram Geceler\" width=\"660\" height=\"495\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/fPTbI8h3UKY?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Evet, &#8220;baya\u011f\u0131&#8221; \u00e7irkinle\u015ftik. Art\u0131k sende eski sen de\u011filsin, bende eski ben de\u011filim. Hepimiz duygusuz, hayatta kalmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan psikolojisi bozuk, d\u0131\u015far\u0131 g\u00fclen sahte insanlar olduk. Ama neyse ki her\u015fey yolundaym\u0131\u015f gibi, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir bireymi\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeye devam ediyoruz. Ger\u00e7ekleri ne zaman konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131z acaba? Takvimden kopan her yaprak hi\u00e7bir \u015fey i\u00e7in \u00fcz\u00fclmemem gerekti\u011fini \u00f6\u011fretti bana. Yani &#8220;gams\u0131z&#8221; &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/baya-cirkinlestik.html\" class=\"more-link\">Okumaya devam et <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">-Baya- \u00c7irkinle\u015ftik<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":81,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-67","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kisisel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=67"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":95,"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67\/revisions\/95"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=67"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=67"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mustafaalniak.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=67"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}